My Cat is a Hollywood Actor!

Well maybe not quite, but it gave me a bit of a smile.

Not sure what Mallikai would think of this! But here it is anyway…

It’s a short picture video with a great music track to listen as it plays. Check out the last image of mister nosey…

Sorry video coming tomorrow. (I didn’t realise I would have to convert it first )

Tales of a Cat Lover – My Cat Mallikai

I call him “My Big Black Boy”. But before I rant on in this post about my loving cat Mallikai, I want to let you in on a little secret… Pssst, you’ll need to come closer… (I wasn’t always a cat lover). Right, now that I’ve shared that I can move on with a clear conscience.

I have spent my whole life believing that cats were nothing but opportunistic creatures that serve no purpose at all for human beings, except to give us something to whinge about. I convinced myself that there was absolutely no benefit to having a feline companion around the home at all, and that acquiring one was to be avoided at all costs.

Fast forward to 2008, and you have a completely different man who now has moments of thinking what would life be like without my cat Mallikai.

My Wife and Her Pets!

It all started with my now wife – Deb, who brought her entourage into our relationship of a cat (Smudge) and two dogs with great initial resistance. I always had a lot of trouble bonding with Smudge because he didn’t grow up with me and there wasn’t that ‘connection’ with us that normally develops over time between owner and pet. But we did have our moments and he was growing on me in small ways.

Well one day Smudge went missing, which of course sent Deb into an absolute distraught state of panic. Over the following four days Deb and I searched relentlessly in the hope that Smudge had just gone on a wandering spree to discover his newer surroundings. Deb’s efforts led her to discover that Smudge had been (as feared) hit on a nearby road. This confirmed that growing sinking feeling in our minds that he of course wouldn’t be coming home.

Oh my God! It’s Smudge Re-Incarnated…

As fate would have it, a week later we saw an ad in our local supermarket offering kittens to good homes. When Deb looked into the supplier she discovered it was actually the same owner to the mother of Smudge. We quickly jumped in the car and drove to see this litter of kittens and were completely blown away with what we saw. Out of a litter of six, one little fluff ball came waddling over to where Deb and I were standing that was the spitting image of smudge. Well, Deb was absolutely convinced that this was in fact a little smudge re-incarnated and that he wasn’t going anywhere but home with us. . .

After choosing the name Mallikai, which means angel in Swahili, we settled him in at home. Of course he was a kitten, and to say there wasn’t times when I wanted to throttle him would be an understatement.

Truth be told though, It really didn’t take that that much effort for me to establish a connection between us as you can see in the pic above, but what really surprised me was how quick and effortless it happened. It was the ‘closet cat lover’ coming out in me that I really knew existed but didn’t want to acknowledge.

As I write this my boy is sitting outside my window meowing in an attempt to cajole some food out of me.

Well, I may as well go give him some now because ‘I know he loves me’

Cat Care at Home: Watch your cat for signals?

Being aware of your cats moods

Many people believe that cats don’t care much for mutual interaction with humans, but often this ‘cat care factor’ is confused with ‘assertiveness’.

My cat Malikai loves attention and pampering when he’s had a chance to be active for a while. He will often vocalize that he ‘requires’ my undivided attention and give a quick few brushes around my legs. I’ve named it his affection call.

Now I know that his motivation for seeking attention will vary depending on the time of day or if he is hungry, but I do know that sometimes it’s simply because he is feeling lonely or ’smoochy’. The time that he sits with me varies between two to ten minutes and will usually involve a good amount of ‘muzzle stroking’ with clear visual signs that he enjoys it.

Pay attention to visual signs

At some stage in the pampering process I will notice that his tail starts to move in slow sweeping motions. I have learned that often this is due to me ‘patting’ his back or lower body section which he finds uncomfortable and confronting. If I move back to his head and upper body region his tail will usually stop. But If this swishing becomes more assertive, he is letting me know that he would like to leave.

Cats are often labeled many things, but one thing they ‘are not’, is dependent. They have clear boundaries for what is acceptable and safe in their own eyes. Be aware of what your cat likes and dislikes then monitor your mutual interactions for signs of when he’s had enough.

Remember that cats and humans communicate in different ways. You need to learn to identify what language he is speaking and reply accordingly.

Try to identify what makes your kitty tick and you will enjoy a life time of understanding, affection and respect.

Many Happy Days with You and Your Kitty

Cat Care: Play Aggression

Play aggression, Can you tell the difference?

Aggression is an inherent aspect of your cat’s predatory nature: behaviors like stalking, chasing, leaping, pouncing, swatting, and biting are all common displays, and are always a major component of any cat’s play session.

This behavior is just how cats play and usually, this doesn’t constitute a problem: It’s simply a matter of understanding how to harness it.

But when your cat becomes “play aggressive”, things can get very uncomfortable, very quickly: faced with a cat that doesn’t understand that such play is painful and even dangerous for her owner, playtimes with your cat can become a trial rather than a pleasure. And we all know that this is about as much fun as a ‘bird at cat weight loss convention’.

This problem is the number-one most common form of aggression that cats display towards humans. It happens when a bored, under-exercised, and lonely cat becomes overstimulated during play – and typical play-time mock aggression becomes the real deal.

How do cats normally play?

Keep in mind that cats play in two ways: social (or interactive) play, which is directed towards other cats and humans; and solitary play, which is directed towards objects like balled up paper, mobile cat toys, and paper bags. This is often different to forms of play that they would engage in with other cats.

Play aggression is often present in either of these two modes of play, but it only becomes an issue when people are involved.

What causes play aggression?

Of course this is going to sound obvious, but play aggression happens when your cat has an excess of unused energy. It can be from a lack of exercise and owner interaction – and, as a result, becomes too rambunctious and vigorous during a play session.

Because all cat play is based around the predatory feline nature, an overstimulated cat vents this excess through an intensification of normal predatory play: so, instead of swatting at you with claws sheathed, she extends them; instead of mouthing your hand, she gives it a sharp bite.

Unfortunately, the problem is usually self-replicating. The cat is play-aggressive because she’s not getting enough stimulating, interactive play time; but because she demonstrates this behavior whenever she gets played with, her owner plays with her less … which results in more play aggression … which results in even less play … and so on.

How can I tell when my cat’s about to become aggressive?

You can often tell when the play’s getting a bit out of control by paying attention to your cat’s body language and expression.

Normal, non-aggressive feline play behavior includes the ‘play face’, with a half-open mouth and heavily lidded eyes; the sideways hop (often with arched back); and a lightly switching tail (it’s going from side to side, but slowly and gently.)

When your cat’s getting too revved-up, her body language will alter dramatically. Her ears will go back, her tail will start lashing violently from side to side, and her pupils will enlarge. Her movements will also become significantly more vigorous and energetic: there’ll be increased speed and force to her playing.

What should I do when I sense things are getting out of control?

If you think your cat’s getting overexcited, the best thing you can do is to stand up and walk away – before she actually starts to display aggression! You can resume play as soon as she’s calmed down a bit; the idea is to intervene before she has the chance to vent her energy on you.

If it’s too late for this and she’s already started to bite or scratch at you, don’t reward her with attention – not even negative attention. Simply stand up and walk away. Leave the room, if necessary.

At this point, she will most likely try to initiate play with you again. When she does, don’t respond – play initiation is dominant behavior, and if you accede to her demands, it’ll teach her that bothering you for attention results in her getting her own way.

If she’s particularly persistent, or the aggresion is becoming hard to deal with, you can isolate her in a room by herself until she’s calm (which can take anywhere from five to twenty minutes.)

Main do’s and don’ts for play aggression

• Remember, your cat isn’t really trying to ‘attack’ you – her intentions are purely playful. She just has to learn that aggressive behavior isn’t going to result in a rewarding play session for her. In order for her to learn this, you need to be consistent with your reactions: so don’t reward her with attention sometimes, and ignore her at other times. She’ll get confused, and won’t learn to curb her aggressive behavior.

• Don’t ever use physical punishment to correct play aggression. There are two reasons for this: one, if you actually hurt your cat, this will result in increased aggression on her behalf; and two, even if it doesn’t hurt, it’s still going to scare her, which results in owner-avoidance and a general deterioration of your relationship.

• Since play aggression is almost always due to boredom and an excess of energy, the best thing you can do is to provide lots of opportunities for stimulating interactive play with your cat. Try to make it aerobic exercise: get her running around, chasing things, climbing, pouncing, and so on.

• Make sure the play is on your terms. Don’t allow your cat to initiate play – this is habit-forming, and teaches her that you can be manipulated.

• If you find it difficult to make the time to play with your cat, scheduling in a couple of set ten-minute playtimes each day might help. Paying attention to your cat’s circadian rhythms (watching to see when she’s the most active) is a good idea as well: play with her when she’s wide-awake and raring to go. She’ll get more out of it.

What toys should I use?

Try things like ping-pong balls, scrumpled-up paper, cardboard boxes, paper bags, dangling ropes affixed to the ceiling or doorways, scratching posts, and skeins of yarn for solitary play; and fake mice, cat dancers (like a mobile which you dangle and jerk around for your cat to play with), wands, and anything that rolls which you can toss for her for interactive play.

If she likes to climb and explore, you can also try creating an obstacle course for her to enjoy: rig up some branches, pillars, shelves, perches, and climbing ramps etc for her to clamber around on. Most cats enjoy being up high anyway, so this should go down a treat. You can also try hiding some small, tasty treats in various places to encourage her to get climbing.

For a really detailed look at how to deal with your cat’s behavior problems, take a look at Complete Cat Training. It’s a cutting-edge cat training manual that’s focused on training your cat and changing her behavior for the better.

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Training Your Cat

When most people think about animal obedience work, are cats usually the first candidates to spring to mind?… Not exactly.

We tend to associate cats with words like aloof, independent, arrogant and laid back – they seem to focus on doing what they want, when they feel like it.

You might be excused for thinking that our feline friends aren’t really ideal training material!

However – there’s an ever-increasing number of people who are deriving a great deal of pleasure from training their cats in basic and advanced obedience work and tricks (from sit, stay, come to jumping through hoops, twirling, and high-fiving) – and they’re convinced that their cats enjoy it, too!

The benefits of training your cat

Everybody knows that cats typically lead solitary, individual lives, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they always want to.

Contrary to popular belief, many cats are incredibly affectionate and loving by nature – they just need you to demonstrate your leadership and initiate the rapport-building process.

Cats are often underestimated when it comes to the training process, simply because the average owner has very little need to attempt any sort of training at all. Unlike with dogs (whose ability to learn is very well documented) there’s no need to train cats in the basics of pet protocol like house training and bathing.

Consequently, relatively few people are aware of their cat’s abilities in this area.

Training your cat is a fantastic way to enrich your cat’s life:

• It builds a strong rapport between you and your cat

• Because training underlines your authority (your cat has to do what you want to get what he wants), it helps to curb dominant behavior

• It keeps your cat’s mind active and stimulated

• It’s great interactive play, and teaches good social skills

• Anxious and highly-strung cats are reassured and soothed by the repetition and routine of training

So how do I train my cat?

There are two popular methods of training a cat: target training and clicker training. A brief rundown of each:

* Target training is where you attract your cat’s attention and then obtain desired behaviors through the use of a designated tool. For example, during the ‘beg’ command, a particular target training tool called a training wand is used to attract the cat’s attention upwards, and to encourage the cat to rise up on his haunches and ‘beg’.

* Clicker training is a form of operant conditioning (which is where the animal is taught to form a conscious association between a specific behavior and a result.) A small mechanical noise-maker (the ‘clicker’) is used by the trainer to create a short, distinct noise. The clicker is clicked at the precise moment that the cat performs a desired behavior – for example, during ‘sit’, the clicker is clicked at the very instant that the cat’s bottom touches the ground. Directly after the click, the cat is fed a small and tasty treat. With repetition, the cat grows to associate the click with the food, and recognizes his own ability to earn treats by performing the desired action on command.

The clicker is a particularly valued training tool because it allows the trainer to pinpoint the exact behavior you would like rewarded: without the clicker, it’s too easy for your cat to form associations between the treat and a completely unrelated behavior (since it’s impossible to feed the cat a treat at the precise moment that he’s performing a trick.)

Practical tips for training your cat

Stop Free-Feeding

If you’re free-feeding your cat (leaving food out at all times for him to eat as and when he feels like it), stop doing this. Enforcing a feeding schedule has two main benefits: it increases the reward-value of food treats as training devices, and also introduces a semblance of routine into your cat’s life (which, believe it or not, most cats actually prefer.)

Remember to be patient.

Your cat is an individual, with his own abilities and preferences. He will pick up some tricks quickly, but may struggle with others. Make allowances for his personality, and don’t lose your temper if it doesn’t go exactly according to schedule.

Train smart

If you’re using food treats (which is highly recommended to achieve the desired results) then schedule training sessions for just before mealtimes: your cat’s natural desire for food at his regular mealtime will sharpen his focus and increase his desire to obey you (so he can get a treat.)

Take baby steps

When training your cat, it’s best to build up a solid foundation of the basics before attempting to expand his repertoire.

Keep Lessons Short

- Cats have pretty short attention spans, and low boredom thresholds. Keep lessons short and interesting – and always try to end on a positive note.

Training your cat to ‘sit’ on command

‘Sit’ is a great basic command for your cat to know. It serves as the foundation for a number of other, more advanced tricks and commands (for example, ‘stay’, ‘beg’, and ‘high five’.)

• Make your training wand extra-effective by smearing the tip in a little tuna oil, and use it to attract your cat’s attention (wave it around, trail it past his face, etc.)

• Once he’s come over to you, place the wand just over his head, so that it’s slightly behind the crown of his head.

• He will tilt his head back to keep his eyes on it. When he does this, he will naturally sit down (since otherwise, his neck can’t bend back far enough to allow him to keep watching the training wand.)

• As he sits down, say the word ‘Sit’, which will be the verbal cue for this command (your cat will grow to associate the command with the act of sitting, and eventually will learn to sit down whenever you ask him to.)

• As soon as his bottom touches the ground, click the clicker. It’s important that you time this precisely.

• Directly after clicking, give him a small food treat. Make sure it’s cut up very small – if it takes him more than two seconds to eat it, he’ll forget why you gave it to him.

• Repeat this process a few more times, and over the next few weeks, keep doing so until he’s comfortable with what’s expected of him. When he’s able to sit down on command, you can phase the clicker out – but still give treats sporadically (interestingly, if you treat every single time that he performs a command, he’s actually less likely to reliably obey that command. Keeping him on his toes seems to increase the likelihood of obedience!)

Further training

For step-by-step advice on how to train your cat in a huge variety of other obedience commands and tricks (from ‘stay’ to ‘play dead’ to ‘fetch’), check out the Complete Cat Training book – it’s full of training how-to’s, as well as a huge amount of detailed information on solving problem behaviors, cat psychology, and how to develop a more rewarding relationship with your cat.